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8 Ways My Dating Life is Just Like the FIFA World Cup

July 9, 2014/in Funny & Videos /by Guest Blogger

The following article is a guest post, courtesy of Alina Polishuk

Whether or not you’ve been keeping up with the drama that is the 2014 FIFA World Cup (that Germany-Brazil game though…), chances are you can relate to this international soccer tournament more easily than you think. Emotions running high, poor choices being made, disappointment and excitement abound…
Sound familiar? Like your love life, perhaps? If so, read on. Because football fan or not, the World Cup can easily parallel the ups and downs of your modern dating life, and here’s how:

1. It can get really confusing
confusing

2. You don’t always score
miss

3. But when you do it’s like:

4. You feel like there is always someone judging your actions awkward ref

5. The pretty ones always get the most attention

6. Timing is EVERYTHING van persie

7. There will always be the one (or ones) that got away

8. But sometimes, all you need is your friends to support you… win or lose

Think of any other similarities? Tweet us your thoughts @Coffeembagel! And don’t forget to check out our compilation of the 16 most astonishing dating confessions on Whisper.

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Living Independence Day: 5 Tips to Stay Independent in Relationships

June 30, 2014/in Date Tips /by Guest Blogger

The following article is a guest post, courtesy of Travis Noddings

While fireworks are exploding over our heads this July 4th in celebration of The United States of America’s glorious adoption of the Declaration of Independence, I’d like to remind everyone out there to rejoice in their own hard-earned independence.
Whether you’re entering a new relationship, strengthening an ongoing one, or just looking towards the future, it can be easy to let the freedom you experienced in your single life slip away once you couple-up.

You don’t always realize how much you’ve given up, but the good news is that it’s never too late to assert yourself and reclaim your title as an extraordinary, strong, independent individual! Can I get an ”Amen”?

Here are five tips to help you keep your independence while maintaining a healthy relationship:

1. Have your own space

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Being together doesn’t mean you have to give up being alone. For couples that live together, creating a space that is all your own is an absolute must. No matter how much you love your partner, spending most of your time in someone else’ company can quickly become draining. Everyone needs a safe retreat to cool down, think, decompress, and  be by themselves. Never be afraid to take a breather in a study, guest room, or just your own little spot in the city.

For most of the year my boyfriend and I live on opposite sides of the country, so alone time isn’t hard to come by. However, when we are staying together it’s usually in a tiny studio apartment that forces us into each other’s personal space. To stay sane, we take a few hours every weekend to sit separately (me on the couch, him at his desk) and work on our own projects or just generally goof off apart from one another. For a physical reprieve, consider walking down to a local café or visiting a book store for a bit. No one is likely to bother you in your own little reading nook, and you’ll feel a lot more refreshed when you return home.

2. Keep your own hobbies & interests

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Just as important as having your own space, keeping certain activities for yourself (or with an outside group of friends) will help you stay connected with your passions and continue  maturing independent of your partner. They are a great way to meet new friends, maintain an interesting and unique life outside of your relationship, and develop an emotional outlet for your frustrations and anxieties. You don’t have to plunge yourself into white water rafting, but perhaps drawing, yoga, kickboxing, blogging, or volunteering might offer you an escape. Bring back one of your long forgotten childhood hobbies and take it to the next level; you’ll be surprised by how much you didn’t know you missed it.

It’s okay to go to events, like concerts or seminars, without your partner (I am personally going to bow down to Beyoncé solo this August). Don’t be afraid to take extended trips apart, either. Whether it’s visiting family or taking a long-awaited road trip with your friends, you’ll both be happy for the detached downtime.

3. Stand your ground

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Relationships demand compromise, but you are always in control of your own priorities. Don’t reorganize your life to meet “shared values” if you don’t truly believe in them yourself, or if they neglect your interests. Decide which things you aren’t willing to compromise on, but be prepared to cede less important ones if you want to keep a happy, healthy relationship. If your partner tries to sway you into giving up your personal time, or asks you to take on a chore that you despise, remind them that you need to focus on the things that are important to you and that you’ll trade responsibilities if need be. I always stop to ask myself “Is this something I want? Would I mind doing it for him here and there? How can I help him understand my perspective?” Thinking aloud to your partner doesn’t hurt, either.

Live life like House of Cards’ Frank and Claire Underwood—working together, but never giving up your own agenda.

4. Speak openly when you disagree

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You’re allowed to say no. You’re allowed to get mad, vent, and voice all of your displeasures. The healthiest thing a couple can do is maintain an open, unconditional, non-judgmental dialogue. Speaking up is the only way you can ensure your independence while simultaneously working with your partner to improve your relationship. Make your opinion heard, and demand it be respected. It’s okay to bide your tongue for the little things, but don’t hold your voice down for too long—it’s the little things you keep letting go that insidiously become overwhelming.

If you aren’t getting through to them in the moment, reopen discussion when you’re both in a good mood (I strike during dinner, food always softens the blow). Alternatively, write your frustrations down in a note and leave it for them to find while you’re not around (if they get home before you during the week, in their backpack/briefcase, coat pocket etc). This will help you articulate your thoughts better and give them time to take in your argument without immediately reacting. It wouldn’t be a bad idea to mix in some sweet, appreciative notes after that one so they don’t live in fear of reaching into their pockets.

5. Celebrate yourself

celebrate yourself, treat yourself, love yourself, independence day, independenceAs Tom and Donna say on Parks and Recreation, “Treat. Yo. Self.” You were an epic, independent, unique individual before you started a relationship, and you’re only getting better with time. Don’t be afraid to pat yourself on the back, replay your greatest achievements, and push full-steam ahead on self-celebration. Never shrink yourself. Never let a partner’s doubts cloud your judgement. Make a list of your short and long term goals, and revisit them when you feel like you might be losing your direction. Keep your eyes trained on your hopes and dreams, and promise yourself that you will keep working towards them no matter what changes in your life.

Put yourself first.

Happy Independence Day!

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8 Things Penny Dreadful Can Teach Us About Romance

June 30, 2014/in Date Tips /by Guest Blogger

The season finale of Penny Dreadful was just last night. As I lament over the end of Season 1, and look forward to season 2, I can’t help but to think about how some of the romantic elements in the show can apply to dating in real life.
So Penny Dreadful isn’t really romantic, with all the violence and horror, but there are a lot of titillating scenes and romantic subplots that can teach us a thing or two about spicing up our love lives.
1) Walks in arboretums can be quite flirtatious.
Dorian Flower
Dorian Vanessa Garden
Dorian Vanessa walking
Rothschild's Orchid
Vanessa Looks at Dorian Garden
 
2) Surprise your date with a really good date.
Brona had never been to the theater before, so just look at how elated she is when Ethan surprises her by taking her one night! Bonus: he buys her an orange.
Brona Theater 1 Brona Ethan Orange
Brona Theater 2 Brona Theater 3
 
3) Play music to set the mood when you’re together.
Dorian Ethan 1
Dorian Ethan 2
 
4) Sexy Boudoir photoshoots can really spice things up.
Photoshoot 2 Photoshoot 1
 
5) Sincere compliments are ALWAYS appreciated.
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Malcom Vanessa 2
Malcom Vanessa 3
 
6) Have intriguing conversations over dinner.
Bonus points if it’s candlelit and classy, too.
Vanessa Dorian Dinner 1 Vanessa Dorian Dinner 2
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Vanessa Dorian Dinner 7 Vanessa Dorian Dinner 8
 
7) Asking for consent is always appreciated.
If a spoiled, manipulative, and immortal brat like Dorian can ask for consent, so can everyone else.
May I Kiss Your Neck?
 
8) But above all, be there for each other as confidantes and trusted loved ones.
Proceed as one
 
Do you enjoy our TV-inspired dating posts? If so, perhaps you’ll want to read 13 Game of Thrones Reactions to Online Dating.
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7 Differences Between Dating on Coffee Meets Bagel and Tinder

April 30, 2014/in Funny & Videos /by CMB

In this day and age, with all these different dating apps floating around out there, I guess it’s only a matter of time someone compares Coffee Meets Bagel to the infamous Tinder. While 60% of these are exaggerated, 100% of these are true. How many of these can you relate to?

1. The Candidates

Tinder: Oh haiii ladies
Coffee Meets Bagel: Quality over quantity
tinder bagel candidates

2. When You Use the App

Tinder: Roulette on the toilet
tinder toilet
Drunk
honey boo boo text
Coffee Meets Bagel: Count down to noon
countdown

3. How You Connect

Tinder: It’s a match! Rinse, repeat until you feel nauseous
tinder match
tinder match
tinder match
tinder match
ryan gosling
over
Coffee Meets Bagel: One match a day – every match feels awesome
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4. Initial Messages

Tinder: Super original, with a side of gross
Coffee Meets Bagel: How normal people start conversations
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5. The Meet Up

Tinder: …….
tinder meet
Coffee Meets Bagel: Score!
barney score

6. The Follow Up

Tinder: Can you not?
tinder follow-up
Coffee Meets Bagel: The start of something great
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7. Long Term Potential

Tinder: Long term potent—NO
stop
Coffee Meets Bagel: Let’s do this!
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5 Totally Ridiculous Dating Trends You’ll Find In Asia

January 31, 2014/in Funny & Videos /by Guest Blogger

I’d do anything for love (but I won’t do that). You won’t believe some of the bizarre things people do when it comes to finding love. Check out these 5 ridiculous dating trends in Asia:

1. Shanghai Matchmaking Expo

At this exhibition in Shanghai, thousands (yes, thousands) of moms try their hand at matchmaking, displaying photos and resumes of their single sons and daughters in hopes of finding them a partner. Yes, this actually happens.
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2. Dinner With Foreigners (aka White People)

Seriously? Seriously.
white guy

3. Goodbye Sushi Dates, Hello McDonalds

In some parts of Asia, fast food establishments like McDonalds, Pizza Hut, and KFC are beginning to be seen as “chic” and “stylish” places to take your date. It looks a dollar menu first date isn’t such a bad idea after all.
mcdonalds

4. Couple Shirts Are Just the Beginning

Matching t-shirts for couples are just the tip of the iceberg in Asia. Matching lanyards, belts and phone cases — you name it, they’ll have it. matching

5. Virtual Girlfriends

As of late, there have been multiple reports of Japanese Otakus marrying inanimate objects. Everything from their virtual Nintendo DS girlfriend to an anime character pillow. No, unfortunately you didn’t misread that. A pillow.
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Being Single In Hong Kong Vs. In America

January 28, 2014/in Funny & Videos /by Guest Blogger

Life as a bachelor/bachelorette in Hong Kong, versus that of the USA is… a little bit different to say the least. Here are some prime examples:

1. Being a White Bachelor

Hong Kong:

player

America:

alone

2. Being an Asian Bachelor

Hong Kong:

sad

America:

sad

3. Being a Single Asian Woman

Hong Kong:

similar

America:

fabulous

4. Being Single at 3 AM on a Friday Night

Hong Kong:

rave

America:

dog

5. Men in their 20’s

Hong Kong:

party

America:

party

6. Men in their 30’s

Hong Kong:

party

America:

american pie

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10 Most Hilarious Dating Cartoons

Great Dating Advice (on What Not To Do) from 10 Most Hilarious Relationship Cartoons

November 7, 2013/in Date Stats /by CMB

We love cartoons and we love dating advice. Combined, they are quite entertaining. Here is some great dating advice (on what not to do) from the 10 most hilarious relationship cartoons. Enjoy!
Brought to you by Coffee Meets Bagel & Jerry King: Jerry King is one of the most published cartoonists in the world today, selling nearly 300 cartoons per month. His client list includes Disney, American Greetings, and other companies worldwide. After serving as a medic in the army, Jerry went on to graduate from The Ohio State University with a bachelors degree in English. A former golden gloves champion, Jerry now spends his time on the golf course, losing.

Orgasms – Not Business As Usual

December 6, 2012/in Date Tips, For Her, For Him, Uncategorized /by CMB

Everyone wants great sex, you know this, I know this. (Berkeley college kids know this – as seen in this snappy recent sex article.) But sometimes orgasms are complicated, sometimes they’re MIA and sometimes they’re faked. (Guilty, guilty and guilty). OneTaste, a company dedicated to helping people live healthier, orgasmic lifestyles, knows that very well.
So when I agreed to attend a OneTaste seminar downtown on a rainy Saturday morning, (you know, for the sake of journalism) I was expecting a lot of girl talk between just us ladies. I’d been in the Vagina Monologues in college, I enjoyed sex; bring on the climax chat. I arrived at the holiday-decked Hilton hotel, Starbucks in one hand, pen in the other – I was ready.
Or not.
I was not prepared for the variety at the gathering. There were a few couples, there were some single ladies – but also a large collection of men. A fellow of at least sixty years with cowboy bootssat down next to me in the front row as the seminar began. The two speakers, Marcus and Joann, were well-dressed and smilingly, undeniably at peace. Given the setting, I ventured to think I knew why. Everyone introduced themselves and why they were there, and willingly divulged:

“I want to reintegrate sexuality into my life.”
“I want to be able to get what I want, and give more.”

I had to resist squirming in my seat when it was my turn to share. What? Me talk about my cum history in front of all these dudes? Surprisingly, I opened up: I wanted my next relationship to be more open, I admitted. More honest.
OneTaste was all about that – through Orgasmic Meditation (OM), Joann and Marcus revealed, which was defined as “extended, focused touch” on the woman during an OM. There were plenty of couples at the gathering, but having an Orgasmic Meditation can be strictly business, too, with another OMer found in the OneTaste community, no romance involved. The goal is to get that essential dose of oxytocin (with a helping hand) and gradually start seeing the benefits in all aspects of your life.
Okay, I thought. So, people – strangers – can just get together and have one of these “OM’s” whenever, wherever, without any romantic connotation? But what if I want romance in my orgasms?  There was a demonstration between Marcus and another experienced OMer before the lunch break, and no, I didn’t expect to see someone else’s vagina that afternoon. While part of me was mortified to be intruding on something so seemingly intimate (with fifty other people), another part of me was determined to get over myself. Okay, some dude is going DJ-style on another lady on a table in the middle of the room, but you know what? He seemed to have been doing a crackerjack job.
Needless to say it was an eye opening experience.
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If you’re single and want your next sexual relationship to be more rewarding (by leaps and bounds), I still recommend the seminar. The community is open to anyone and everyone, and signing up is available on their site.
Learn more about OneTaste now – Or read more about the day’s seminar here.
Source reference by Nadia Cho of the Daily Californian and special thanks to Maya Gilbert for inviting us at CMB to get a taste of OneTaste.
image Jessica Barone @chai_haiku is a writer, nerd, health nut, technophile, and the social media head n’ main scribbler for Coffee Meets Bagel. Learn more. 

3 Workout Tips for Staying Fit "On-the-Go"

November 28, 2012/in Date Tips, Uncategorized /by CMB

By Jessica Barone @chai_haiku
Hey guys and gals, the holidays are coming up – and amidst all the commercial cheer is a secret threat to your dating scene. What could be a worse enemy for your favorite date outfit than the dreaded Heavy-Traveling & Heavy-Eating season? You’re forced to skip gym visits because you’re flying home for the holidays, you want to spend time with family, and – man, oh man – you forgot how good home-cooking could be!
So how do you find time to work out during this hectic holiday season? Inventively.
Here’s three strength n’ cardio exercises to do anywhere, any time. Stuck in an airport? no problem. Staying at hotel without a gym? Not to worry. Read on.
1) The Plank 5
Find a patch of floor that you can spread out on, get onto your feet and hands, back straight, and lower yourself onto your elbows. You’ll want a stop watch nearby.

  • Stay 30 seconds on both elbows
  • then turn onto your left elbow and do a side plank for 30 seconds,
  • then back onto both elbows for 30 seconds,
  • then onto your right elbow for 30 seconds,
  • and then finally finish with a last 30 seconds on both elbows.

Repeat five times with a minute rest in between. Enjoy those 7.5 minutes! For the more ambitious, double it and do a full minute for each plank position. image
2) The Jumping Jack of All Trades
This is great cardio drill to get you sweating. Get into the jumping jack position, feet shoulder-width apart, arms at your side to start.

  • Do twenty jumping jacks (jumping your feet wide apart and bringing your arms over your head each time)
  • followed by twenty quick, high knee kicks (as if running in place, bring each knee HIGH into your palm, above your hip, arms swinging in an easy, jogging motion). image
  • That’s one rep. In between, drop to the floor, do ten pushups, then leap up and do your next Jumping Jack and High Knee drill.

Repeat five times, take a full sixty-second break, then repeat another five times. Do more reps if you feel up to it, with a minute-rest in between each set.
3) The Squat of Atlas
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For this you need a heavy object – a stack of books, even – something that you can lift comfortably, but gives your arms a burn after lifting five times.
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Standing, spread your feet a little more than shoulder-width apart, heavy object(s) in hand, and squat deeply (the deeper the better), then rise and hold the heavy object above your head, hold for two seconds. Do ten reps, rest for thirty seconds, then another ten reps. Repeat between five to ten times.
NOTE: Always listen to your body and never rush a workout – no injuries this holiday season
image  When not heading the social media and marketing for Coffee Meets Bagel, Jessica is training for triathlons, cooking Paleo and supporting others as a GoalSponsor fitness and health trainer in San Francisco. 

Date Inspirations

November 8, 2012/in Date Ideas, NYC, Uncategorized /by CMB

The weekend is almost here, and we wanted to give our awesome CMB members in NYC, Boston and San Francisco some fun date ideas for the weekend. Want to treat that special someone to a romantic night? Or maybe you want to make a great first impression with a new Bagel? Read on, city singles!
New York City goers, looking for something to sweeten up your weekend (literally)? The Annual New York Chocolate Festival is back with tickets starting at just $35 per person. Sample treats and decadent wine from over 65 chocolate companies, meet famous chefs and authors, and schmooze the night away!
WHAT: NY Chocolate Festival
WHERE: Metropolitan Pavillion
WHEN: Friday Nov. 9th through Sunday Nov. 11th, 10AM – 6PM
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For all our Bostonians, why not get to know your date better over some Art, Wine & Art at the Soprafina Gallery this Saturday? $40 per person for all the music, wine and hors d’oeuvres you can eat! Then maybe you two can grab some coffee afterwards at a nearby café (for an even more intimate night cap).
WHAT: Art, Wine & Art Exhibition
WHERE: Soprafina Gallery
WHEN: Saturday Nov. 10th, 7pm
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Finally – San Franciscans, how about exploring some new culture in the Mission? The annual Diwali celebration, the Festival of Lights, with $11 admission per person. Dancing starts in the streets and leads to the venue, where there’s sweets, good eats and music (and even dance lessons for those wanting really to join in the festivities)!
WHAT: Diwali Festival
WHERE: Public Works
WHEN: Saturday Nov. 10th, 9pm
So city singles, what are you going to be up to this weekend?
By Jessica Barone @chai_haiku

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