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Guy tells all: 5 things every girl MUST know about online dating

July 16, 2014/in Funny & Videos /by Guest Blogger

The following article is a guest post, courtesy of Alina Polishuk

Coffee Meets Bagel staffers Andrew and Alina sit down to talk about dating online from a guy’s perspective. Andrew offers online dating tips to ladies looking for love, talks about “provocative” pictures, being catfished, and more!

Want to see more videos? Have any burning questions about online dating you want answered? Tweet us @CoffeeMbagel.
If you enjoyed this post, then surely you’ll enjoy reading our  Story from a member: How many dates does it take to get a first kiss?  

About Coffee Meets Bagel (CMB): CMB  is a free dating service that helps members make meaningful connections. It’s designed for busy singles who want to find something real with little or no effort.

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We Tested 11 Different Male Profile Pictures and This Is What Happened

April 28, 2014/in For Him /by Guest Blogger

I’m at it again! Putting my own online dating reputation at risk for the better good of online daters everywhere, in particular our own users. My previous post was based on improving the way men message women. This time I tested out 11 different types of profile pictures to understand which profile pictures are the most successful for men to use on their online dating profiles. I based the success of each type of profile picture by how many responses each one received when I would message women. The styles are listed from most to least successful. For example, smiling in a basic setting received the most responses while taking a selfie proved to be the worst option. Of course everyone will experience different outcomes but this should give men a good idea of what their main online dating profile picture should be.

1. Smiling

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The classic smile received the most responses and was the outright winner!

2. Animal Pic

Having an animal picture is said to display a passion for another living entity, which women find quite attractive.

3. Outdoors


Showing that you’re active is a way to display both ourselves and our interests.

4. Not Smiling

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Not smiling may turn some women away but at least you aren’t doing anything to embarrass yourself.

5. Picture with girl

Taking a picture with a girl is hit or miss with many women. On one hand it shows what we look like with a girl, on the other hand, why put a women on our online dating profile in the first place? Do you bring sand to the beach?

6. Shirt off

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It depends on the type of women we want to attract. If we want something long-term then we should keep our shirts on, at least on the Internet that is.

7. Group Picture

First off, if there is more than one guy then it may confuse the viewer of the profile. Also if there are multiple girls it could send the wrong message.

8. Costume

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Whoever looks at your profile wants to see you, not what you look like in something you wear once a year. Costume pictures are okay as secondary images but not for the main profile image.

 

9. Eating

10. Cropped

Thoughts that go through the mind of someone who views a photo that is cropped: “Are they hiding something? Who else was in the picture? Do they honestly not have something else to use? They suck at cropping…”

 

11. Selfie

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One of the number one complaints people have about online dating profiles has something to do with people posting selfies.

Did you enjoy this post? Then make sure to check out 5 Ways I Changed the Way I Message Women (and scored multiple dates!) 

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The Wonderfully Charming Handbook on Online Dating

April 8, 2014/in Date Tips /by CMB

Are you a fun-loving, laid-back, chill, and funny guy who loves traveling and hiking? Perhaps sarcasm is one of your greatest talents, and you are obsessed with Game of Thrones? Maybe you’re the type of person who loves to go out with friends, but also enjoys just staying in and watching Netflix? It is possible that you constantly think about food, or love photography and rock climbing? Do you look taller in real life, or younger than your real age? Are you looking for a relaxed person who makes you laugh? 
Oh wait, is that your current Coffee Meets Bagel profile?
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Did you love this post? Then check out Who Has More Fun When it Comes to Dating: New York or San Francisco?
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10 Most Hilarious Dating Cartoons

Great Dating Advice (on What Not To Do) from 10 Most Hilarious Relationship Cartoons

November 7, 2013/in Date Stats /by CMB

We love cartoons and we love dating advice. Combined, they are quite entertaining. Here is some great dating advice (on what not to do) from the 10 most hilarious relationship cartoons. Enjoy!
Brought to you by Coffee Meets Bagel & Jerry King: Jerry King is one of the most published cartoonists in the world today, selling nearly 300 cartoons per month. His client list includes Disney, American Greetings, and other companies worldwide. After serving as a medic in the army, Jerry went on to graduate from The Ohio State University with a bachelors degree in English. A former golden gloves champion, Jerry now spends his time on the golf course, losing.

Five Types of Girls’ Profile Pictures You Find on Mobile Dating Apps

September 25, 2013/in Funny & Videos /by Guest Blogger

In celebration of our new CMB app, we are rolling out a series of blog posts on mobile dating apps! With an endless stream of new people you could meet right in the palm of your hands, now your profile picture is more important than ever in creating a great first impression.

Today we are going to break down some common profile pictures that girls have on those apps and the snap judgement that comes along with them. We already looked at the guys’ profile pictures, now it’s the girls’ turn:

The Outdoorsy Pic

She’s kneeling in a field of flowers, standing under a redwood tree, gazing out over a cliff, or running along a beat up trail. Whatever the backdrop, her arms are always raised overhead in a way that says “I am carefree and one with nature!” But is she really? Only if a five star hotel on a beach counts as nature. Looking for a date idea? A pub run counts as running and you guys can get outdoor seating.

The Prom Pic

She’s wearing a purple floor length taffeta gown from the Macy’s juniors section and sporting an aggressively hairsprayed updo styled by Tina’s Hair Couture. It can only mean one thing- her high school prom photo from five years ago (or at least you hope it is… #jailbait). Has she sprouted a new limb in the time since? Did she get a botched nose job? What exactly is she hiding?

The Car Pic

There’s no better photo op for a selfie than the front seat of her car. And lucky for you, there’s a lot of information to be gleaned from how she keeps her car. Is her backseat clean? Does she have pink fuzzy dice or a cross hanging from her rearview mirror? Is she buckled up? Remember, safety first.

The Foodie Pic

She’s glancing up from her plate of beechwood smoked pork tenderloin encrusted with sheep’s milk blue cheese and roasted pearl onions. Or she’s demurely sipping from her artisanal latte with the Sistine Chapel ceiling depicted by its froth. She’s a classy gal…or just high maintenance. If you take her to Taco Bell, make sure to spring for the gourmet Cantina menu inspired by Chef Lorena Garcia.

The Sorority Pic

A group photo of her and eleven of her sorority sisters, complete with soror squats, hand signs, and the skinny arm. Outfits typically consist of togas, 80s neon garb, or lettered tank tops. Just watch out.. you WILL get texted about to all her friends, so make sure to give an impressive performance on your date.

So there you have it. Five types of profile pictures that girls have on mobile dating apps and the completely valid and extremely accurate judgements that come with them. The next time you’re using a dating app and see a picture outlined here, you’ll know exactly what to do.

Your Profile Picture is Worth a Thousand Words…What Are They?

July 20, 2013/in Funny & Videos /by Guest Blogger

In honor of our new CMB mobile app, we are doing a series of posts focused on mobile phones and the best dating apps. Today, we’re breaking down the types of profile pictures of guys you find on a mobile dating app. Read on!

Everyone knows first impressions are important. They are even more so with the increasing popularity of mobile dating apps and decreasing attention spans. Your profile picture can find you your soulmate or leave you in the dust of missed connections and abandoned Bagels. Dating coaches give endless advice on how to choose the perfect photo to upload. Find the most flattering lighting, look directly at the camera, don’t look directly at the camera, smile! With all the advice out there, it’s hard to keep track. No matter which picture you choose to upload, remember that a picture is a worth a thousand words. Let’s take a look at what those words are.

Holding puppy/baby/cute object

He knows puppies and babies are women magnets and is using that fact to his advantage. Even so, who can resist a man being smothered by puppy kisses?

On stage at a tech conference delivering a keynote

He’s founding his own startup or funding other people’s. You know that he’s techy, nerdy, and has serious net worth. What’s not to love?

Professional glamour shot

Hope that he did this in an ironic way to be funny. Complete with props and poses that attempt to be sexy and mysterious…he’s either a goofball or way too into himself.

Group photo of his office softball team

You know he’s social, has at least that many friends, and is fit enough to lift a bat. Just make sure you’re looking at the right guy!

Shirtless selfie

The only time a shirtless profile picture is acceptable is if he is at the beach/pool/body of water (the toilet doesn’t count). Pass!

So there you have it. Five types of guys you meet through dating apps, solely based on their profile pictures. Which one are you?

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