The following article is a guest post, courtesy of Adrienne Shih
Sometimes men will do anything to get women to hookup with them, but there are several dead giveaways that many men will use. I might have, dare I say, even used all the common material in the books to get women to hook up in the past. So, why am I sharing this information with you? Well, I pledged to help women with their dating lives and give them the opportunity to meet Mr. Right and know when to spot a Mr. Wrong.
So, how can you tell if a guy only wants to hook up?
- He only texts or calls you at night.
Unless he is nocturnal and sleeps during the day in preparation for his job at night, there is no excuse for him to text you after 10 p.m. unless its for a booty call. As a pickup artist, I’ve seen guys who only text girls at 2 a.m. on the weekend because the chances of him getting in touch with a drunk and horny girl were greater.
- The Conversation takes a sexual turn
If you happen to be talking to a guy and the conversation always turns sexual very fast, know that he only wants to hook up with you. In a pickup, a surefire way to turn things sexual is through sexual innuendo (think suggestive puns and double entendres). Not only will you avoid the dreaded friend zone, but you will also get the other person thinking about sex.
- He’s on Tinder
We all know it: Tinder has become an infamous app used mainly for locating late-night hookups. I mean, if that’s your thing, go for it…but the chances of you meeting a nice guy to settle down with are extremely zero to none. In my life, I’ve only heard of one female friend who has met her boyfriend via Tinder. But let me tell you this: she is definitely the exception, not the rule. The rule is simple: Men on Tinder are primarily looking to get laid. Don’t think that you can change a Rico Suave into a man who is boyfriend material. If you yourself are on Tinder, know exactly what you signed up for, and just have fun with it.
How else do you know if guys only want to hookup? Share with me in the “comments” section below.