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“For Serious Daters” Giveaway

April 26, 2023/in Blog /by Jackie Anzaroot

Coffee Meets Bagel

“For Serious Daters” Giveaway

Official Rules

NO PURCHASE NECESSARY. A PURCHASE WILL NOT IMPROVE YOUR CHANCES OF WINNING.

OFFICIAL RULES

Please read these rules before entering the Coffee Meets Bagel “For Serious Daters” Sweepstakes (the “Sweepstakes”). 

By participating in the Sweepstakes, you agree to be bound by these Official Rules and represent that you satisfy all of the eligibility requirements in Section 1 below.

  1. ELIGIBILITY. The Sweepstakes is open only to legal residents of the contiguous forty-eight (48) states of the United States (except for Rhode Island), and the District of Columbia who are 21 years of age or older at the time of entry (“Entrants”). The Sweepstakes is void in Rhode Island, Alaska, Hawaii, and Puerto Rico and other U.S. territories. The Sweepstakes is sponsored by Coffee Meets Bagel, Inc., 391 Grove Street, San Francisco, California, United States of America, 94102 (“Sponsor”). Employees of Sponsor, Instagram, Inc. (“Instagram”), or any advertising and promotion agencies or other entities participating in the design, promotion, marketing, advertising, administration or fulfillment of this Sweepstakes. The Sweepstakes is void where restricted or prohibited by law. Entrants’ rights and responsibilities may vary by jurisdiction.
  2. SWEEPSTAKES PERIOD.  The Sweepstakes begins at 12:01 p.m. Eastern time on April 26th, 2023 and ends at 11:59 p.m. Eastern time on May 2nd, 2023 (the “Sweepstakes Period”).
  3. HOW TO ENTER.  (1) Follow the following companies on Instagram: @coffeemeetsbagel and (2) “like,” on the Instagram “For Serious Daters” post on @coffeemeetsbagel’s Instagram feed referencing the Sweepstakes and (3) tag a friend for an extra entry. More than one entry per person is allowed. Tagging more than one friend will result in multiple entries. All entries must be received during the Sweepstakes Period according to Sponsor’s server clock. Incomplete, misdirected, garbled, corrupted or otherwise illegible entries are void and will not be accepted. Persons discovered entering under several names or in any way attempting to tamper with the fair play of the Sweepstakes will be disqualified. Sponsor reserves the right to disqualify false entries or entries suspected of being false. Entries generated by a script, macro or other automated means will be disqualified. In the event of a dispute as to the identity of a Sweepstakes Entrant, the Entrant will be deemed to be the person in whose name the mobile phone account was opened. In the event a dispute regarding the identity of the individual who actually submitted an entry cannot be resolved to Sponsor’s satisfaction, the affected entry will be deemed ineligible.
  4. SELECTION AND NOTIFICATION OF SELECTED ENTRANTS. On or about May 8th, 2023, Sponsor will randomly draw 5 Entrants as the winner from among all eligible entries received. The winner (“Selected Entrant”) will be notified via an Instagram direct message (“Notification”). The Selected Entrant will be required to respond (as directed) within seventy-two (72) hours of attempted Notification. Selected Entrant’s failure to respond timely to the Notification may result in forfeiture of the Prize, and in such case, Sponsor may randomly select an alternate Selected Entrant from among the remaining eligible entries, up to three (3) times. The Selected Entrant will be required to execute a declaration of eligibility / liability / publicity release (“Declaration”), and may be required to execute a consent to a background check. Except where prohibited by law, the Declaration will state that Selected Entrant agrees to allow Sponsor to use (without additional compensation) Selected Entrant’s name, address, photograph, testimonial, likeness and/or biographical information for purposes of advertising and promotion (including, without limitation, posting on Sponsor’s website(s) and affiliated website(s)). Selected Entrant may also be required to provide name, ID card (for tax purpose), birth date, current address, and phone number. Except to the extent restricted by law, the Selected Entrant will be required to complete and return the Declaration within the time period specified therein. The Prize may be forfeited, and in such case, an alternate Selected Entrant may be randomly selected from among the remaining eligible entries if the Selected Entrant (up to three (3) times): (i) cannot be reached; (ii) does not respond to the Notification in a timely manner as required pursuant to these Official Rules; (iii) fails to obtain all signatures on the Release and to return the documents in a timely manner as required pursuant to these Official Rules; or (iv) cannot accept or receive the Prize for any reason. Non-compliance with these Official Rules may result in disqualification and selection of an alternate Selected Entrant. Sponsor is not required to make multiple attempts to contact a Selected Entrant.
  5. PRIZE.  10 Selected Entrants will receive the following (the “Prize”):
  • A $100 Visa Gift Card to use towards a date stipend

The total approximate retail value (“ARV”) of the Prize is $100.

  1. PRIZE CONSIDERATIONS. The specifics of the elements of the Prize shall be solely determined by Sponsor. All costs, taxes, fees, and expenses associated with any element of the Prize not specifically addressed above are the sole responsibility of the Selected Entrant. The Prize is non-transferable and no substitution will be made except as provided herein at the Sponsor’s sole discretion. Sponsor reserves the right to substitute the Prize (or a component thereof) for one of equal or greater value for any reason. If Selected Entrant is unable to fulfill the requirements to receive the Prize, Selected Entrant forfeits the Prize in its entirety and an alternate winner may be selected.
  2. ADDITIONAL CONDITIONS. All federal, state or other tax liabilities (including income taxes) arising from this Sweepstakes will be the sole responsibility of Selected Entrant. Sponsor reserves the right to disqualify any Entrant it finds to be tampering with the entry process or the operation of the Sweepstakes or violating these Official Rules, and reserves the right at its sole discretion to terminate the Sweepstakes and, if terminated, at its discretion, select the potential winner(s) in a random drawing from among all eligible, non-suspect entries received prior to action taken. Sponsor shall not be liable for: (i) late, lost, delayed, void, corrupted, misdirected, incomplete unreadable, inaccurate, garbled or unintelligible entries, communications or declarations, regardless of the method of transmission; (ii) telephone system, telephone or computer hardware, software or other technical malfunctions, bugs, lost connections, disconnections, delays or transmission errors Entrants may encounter when submitting their entry; (iii) data corruption, theft, destruction, unauthorized access to or alteration of entry or other materials; (iv) any injuries, losses or damages of any kind caused by the prize or resulting from acceptance, possession or use of a prize, or from participation in the Sweepstakes; or (v) any printing, typographical, administrative or technological errors in any materials associated with the Sweepstakes.
  3. RELEASE. By entering the Sweepstakes, Entrant releases Sponsor, Instagram and any of their parent companies, subsidiaries, affiliates, directors, officers, employees and agencies (collectively, the “Released Parties”) from any liability whatsoever, and waive any and all causes of action, related to any claims, costs, injuries, losses, or damages of any kind arising out of or in connection with the Sweepstakes or delivery, misdelivery, acceptance, possession, use of or inability to use any prize (including, without limitation, claims, costs, injuries, losses and damages related to personal injuries, death, damage to or destruction of property, rights of publicity or privacy, defamation or portrayal in a false light, whether intentional or unintentional), whether under a theory of contract, tort (including negligence), warranty or other theory.
  4. DISPUTES. Disputes regarding these Official Rules and/or this Sweepstakes will be governed by the internal laws of the State of California. By entering, Entrant consents to jurisdiction in the federal and state courts of San Francisco County, California for the disposition of any and all disputes.
  5. GENERAL CONDITIONS.  By participating, Entrant agrees to be fully and unconditionally bound by these Official Rules and the decisions of Sponsor and waive any right to claim ambiguity in the Sweepstakes or these Official Rules. Any portion of the Sweepstakes may be canceled, suspended and/or modified, in whole or in part, if in Sponsor’s opinion any fraud, technical failure or other factor beyond its control impairs the integrity or proper functioning of the Sweepstakes. Sponsor reserves the right in its sole discretion to disqualify any individual acting in a disruptive manner or with the intent to disrupt or undermine the legitimate operation of the Sweepstakes, or to annoy, abuse, threaten or harass any other person, and Sponsor reserves the right to seek damages and other remedies from any such person to the fullest extent permitted by law. Sponsor reserves the right in its sole discretion to terminate the Sweepstakes and, if terminated, at its discretion, select the potential winner in a random drawing from among all eligible, non-suspect entries received prior to action taken. Entering with multiple identities or use any automated system, bot or other device or artifice to enter or obtain more than the maximum number of qualified entries is prohibited. Unclaimed Prizes will not be awarded. The Sweepstakes is in no way sponsored, endorsed or administered by, or associated with Instagram or any other third party platform. Please contact Sponsor with any questions about this Sweepstakes. This Sweepstakes is in no way sponsored, endorsed or administered by, or associated with Instagram.  Please do not direct any communications about this Sweepstakes to Instagram or any other third party platform.
  6. PRIVACY.  Entrants will be contacted by social media direct message or email only. Email addresses may be stored and Entrants may receive email correspondence from, or on behalf of Sponsor subject to Sponsor’s privacy policy located at http://coffeemeetsbagel.com/privacy (“Privacy Policy”). Entrants may subsequently opt-out of receiving further emails by following the opt-out instructions contained in the email. Any questions regarding privacy matters should be directed to the address set out below. Please refer to Sponsor’s Privacy Policy for important information regarding the collection, use and disclosure of personal information by Sponsor.
  7. PUBLICITY. Except where prohibited by law, the Selected Entrant’s acceptance of the Prize constitutes permission for Sponsor to use said Selected Entrant’s full name, social media handles, photographs, likeness, statements, biographical information, voice, and city and state address for promotional or advertising purposes in connection with the Sweepstakes on a worldwide basis, and in all forms of media, now or hereafter known, in perpetuity, without review, permission or further compensation, including without limitation on Sponsor and its affiliates’ program(s), website(s) and social media page(s).
  8. WINNER’S LIST AND SWEEPSTAKES RULES. To obtain a copy of these Official Rules or a winner’s list within ninety (90) days of the end of the Sweepstakes Period, email [email protected].

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Set yourself up for success with a smile

December 1, 2022/in Blog, News, Stats /by Kaitlyn Crow

First impressions matter, and it turns out that your smile plays a pretty major role: When surveyed, 84% of daters in Hong Kong said a nice smile is more attractive than a six-pack!

So, we teamed up with dental company Zenyum to help you unlock two of the best assets in dating: A confident smile and a helping hand from CMB Premium.

Unlock CMB Premium and your best smile with Zenyum

Check out how our exclusive offers with Zenyum can get you free access to CMB Premium.

Take a 3-minute assessment

Get one free month of Premium when you take a picture of your teeth and let a Zenyum professional examine your smile through a free assessment.

Upgrade your oral care routine

Another fun fact about the power of your smile: 65% of daters said bad breath is the biggest turn-off on a date. Spend HK$750 or more on Zenyum products for 35% off plus one free month of CMB Premium. Just use the code CMBSMILE.

Transform your smile

With 82% of Hong Kong daters saying a confident smile makes for the most swipe-right-worthy profile photos, it’s clearly a powerful asset. Join Zenyum’s 60-day Invisible Braces treatment for HK$1,000 off and six months of Premium for free.

To learn more about our partnership offers with Zenyum and what Hong Kong singles think about dating, be sure to check out our Smile At First Sight homepage.

Match more with the power of beans

November 18, 2022/in Blog, CMB 101, Tips /by Kaitlyn Crow

Whether you’ve been on Coffee Meets Bagel for three days or three months, chances are pretty high that you’ve seen us talk about beans. But do you know how to use them to their full potential?

We’ll give you the full rundown. But first, let’s cover the basic question: What exactly are beans? Simply put, they’re our in-app currency that you can use to unlock special features. Here’s a few ways they can give you a helping hand.

Everything you can do with beans

Get up to 5x the views. Plus likes that get shown sooner with a little help from Boost. Pick one up by tapping your profile icon in the top left corner, then “Boost me.”

Match in more ways. Suggested is great, but sometimes you might want to explore outside of the potential matches we picked out for you. You can send likes to people who catch your eye in Discover using beans.

Be shown first. When you run into a popular person on the app, you don’t want your like to get stuck behind a long queue. Use beans to buy Skip the Line, which sends flowers with your like and makes sure you get shown first.

Rekindle a convo. Maybe life got in the way and a chat dwindled away, or you just needed some time away from dating. Regardless of the reason, sometimes a chat deserves a second chance. Use beans on Reopen Chat to pick up where you left off.

So, that’s the inside scoop on beans! Now that you’re a total pro, you can let beans do some of the hard dating work for you. If you’re ever curious about how many you have, look for a beans icon in the top right corner of the Profile Me section – they’ll be a counter there. Find yourself wanting more beans? Earn some for free by signing in and referring friends. Or you can always pick some up in the Bean Shop.

Fancy a picnic? 4 Singapore spots for your next first date

October 20, 2022/in Blog, Date Ideas /by Kaitlyn Crow

We know planning dates can be hard. Keep it casual with coffee, grab drinks after work, plan a fancy dinner? Sometimes the key is to shake things up and try something new! A way you can do that while still keeping your date simple? A picnic.

And the thing is, you don’t have to be some amazing chef who packs a whole spread for you and your date – just grab your favorite to-go orders from a place nearby! It’s pretty easy with foodpanda pick-up, even if you’re debating until the last minute about where to grab food. It’ll be ready in as fast as 10 minutes. And bonus, you don’t have to wait around in long lines, filling the time with small talk. Just pop in, grab your orders, and head out to your spot for a romantic picnic.

But where to go? We did the work for you and rounded up four picturesque spots in Singapore that make for a great picnic date with someone new.

Marina Barrage

Looking for something scenic? This spot has views of the bayfront, Gardens by the Bay, and Marina Bay Sands – perfect for a sunset picnic. And bonus, the breeze means it’s a popular spot for kite fliers, adding even more to your date backdrop. Pop over to Tim Ho Wan at Marina Bay Sands before heading there to grab some to-go pork puns or dumplings, and maybe even something sweet to split.

Changi Bay PCN

The views of Changi Bay are a great talking point when getting to know someone new. Pick up some dinner at Andes by Astons in Changi Village, pack a blanket, and plan to park at the Changi Beach car park – from there, it’s only about a five-minute walk! And if you’re not too full after eating, you can walk even farther to Changi Bay Point.

Keppel Marina East Desalination Plant

In the mood for a spot that’s less crowded? This one’s a little off the beaten path, but you’ll have skyline views that make for a great sunset date. Note that there isn’t public parking here, so you’ll have to park and walk for your picnic – the nearest car park is Fort Road. Pick up a pizza from nearby Brewerkz for a feast. Don’t forget to debate your favorite toppings.

Marina South Pier

Marina South Pier isn’t just for catching a ferry to St. John’s Island, it’s also a picturesque spot to chill out with someone new. Harry’s at Marina Link Bay Mall is close by and has platters made for sharing. Place a pick-up order on the way there so you can grab and go. Don’t forget a blanket, and watch the ships together.

Even more date inspiration

Once you’ve mastered the art of the picnic date, be sure to check out our Instagram. You’ll find more date ideas so you can expand your options, plus a ton of other dating advice.

Double the matches with CMB Premium

August 17, 2022/in Blog, CMB 101, Tips /by CMB

A note from Arum Kang, co-founder & CEO of Coffee Meets Bagel

Now that you’ve learned how to chat like a champ, pick your best pics, and stay safe while looking for someone special, I wanted to cover one last thing before we officially send you on your way to meet someone great: CMB Premium.

I know what you’re thinking. “Really, an upsell?” But here’s the thing: My sisters and I started Coffee Meets Bagel because we were tired of all of the dead-end dating apps that led you round and round with no end in sight. We wanted to create a better way to date, one that actually helps you meet other people looking for a serious relationship.

And the inside scoop from me to you? Subscribers get up to 2x the quality matches *and* dates, thanks to all of the goodies that come with Premium. That means more chances to find your person. Let’s go over all those Premium benefits so you can better understand how they help (and so there’s no confusion when you see them on the app, too).

The benefits of Premium

See everyone who likes you. Why wait to meet someone great? Unblur all your likes and match instantly.

Premium Preferences. Want more control over who you see? Set relationship goals, smoking habits, family plans, and more.

3 Boosts a month. All eyes on you! Enjoy up to 5x more views and every like you send while being boosted gets shown sooner.

Activity Reports. Who doesn’t love some extra info? See who’s worth your time with activity and chat data.

Read Receipts. Waiting, schmaiting. Know when messages are read, so you’re never left in the dark.

Unlimited Rewinds. Have a change of heart? Undo passes on suggested profiles in History.

And more!

OK, I’m done preaching about CMB Premium! Whether you decide to give a subscription a try or not, you’re all set to go out there and find your someone. And remember, dating is a process. Try your best to enjoy it, and don’t let any downs overshadow all of the amazing ups. Good luck!

Money talks: 92% of Singaporean daters say money management matters

August 15, 2022/in Blog, Date Stats, Stats, Tips /by CMB

Talking about money with someone new has been taboo for too long. We believe every dater should be able to talk about the things that matter most with someone new, and how you manage your finances definitely falls under that category.

So, to better understand how daters feel when it comes to talking about money with their dates, we teamed up with Syfe, Singapore’s leading digital investment platform, to go straight to the source. And you know what? Turns out that money does matter.

In our Love Meets Money survey, we learned that 92% of Singaporeans agree that the ability to manage money is an attractive quality for a long-term partner. And that’s not all. Let’s take a deeper dive into how daters navigate the tricky topic.

Handling the bill on a first date

The discussion about who should pay on a first date has always been a hot-button topic. But based on our survey results, daters might be more aligned than previously thought. For both men and women in Singapore, 2 in 5 think that men should pay, and 1 in 3 think you should just split the bill.

And it turns out traditional beliefs are still going strong, seeing as how less than 1% of Singaporeans think the woman should pay on the first date.

Now, what happens if you offer to cover the bill and your date doesn’t object? Over half of the women surveyed said they’d be offended, whereas only 24% of men expect their date to offer to split in this scenario.

Our take? It’s best to just be both polite and upfront about the bill to avoid awkward exchanges or grudge-holding. For example, offer to pay your own way, but thank them if they insist on paying.

Talking about finances: How soon is too soon?

While we do think it’s important to talk about the things that matter early on, it’s not really a surprise that a lot of our survey participants said bringing up money on a first date is a big turnoff.

Although, this does vary with age: More than half of Singaporeans over 35 think money talk is off-limits for the first date, but only 40% under 35 feel the same way. Maybe talking about money isn’t quite so taboo as it used to be.

Regardless of whether you think finances are appropriate first-date material, most of our survey participants agree you can’t ignore it forever. So when can you bring it up? We’re a little divided, with 32% saying you should have the talk before you define the relationship, and 31% saying it’s OK to wait until you’re already in a serious relationship.

But if you want to hold off until you’ve moved in together or are getting married? Well, a whopping 98% think by that point, it’s too late.

How money matters in a relationship

So, why does talking about money even matter to daters? It turns out that careers play a part. Which makes sense, if you want to be with someone who you’re not only compatible with, but who you can build a stable life with, too.

While talking about money on a first date isn’t really all that sexy, 1 in 3 Singaporeans said they’d be open to discussing salaries in particular within just five dates. And in the same vein, 44% think it’s necessary to get into that topic before you make things official.

The survey also found that women take careers into consideration when picking a potential partner. When it comes to ranking criteria that matter most for a relationship, career came in second place for women, while it didn’t crack the top three for men.

But while Singaporean men and women might disagree on the career ranking, one thing they did agree on? Values are the most important thing to look at when deciding if someone is the right fit for you. And we couldn’t agree more.

The importance of aligning on the big things

We know, talking about money can be awkward and weird and maybe even feel a little intrusive. But it doesn’t have to be! Whether we like it or not, money plays a big role in our lives. And we believe that daters should be able to talk about those big things if they want to build a trusting, lasting relationship. If you’re stuck here’s a few tips to remember:

👉 Do acknowledge the weirdness. Talking about money isn’t easy for everyone. Let them know if you’re nervous, and try to remember this is just a chat and not some battle.

👉 Don’t shame them. Try to remember that not everyone will have the same financial literacy or money-management skills – but we can all learn.

👉 Do consider their situation. Remember that wanting to split costs doesn’t mean they don’t like you, they just might not have the same finances as you.

👉 Don’t ambush them. Give some notice to see if they’re open to talking. For example, “If we’re moving in together I think we should start thinking about a monthly budget. Thoughts?”

So go ahead, have the hard conversations. Make sure you’re on the same page, whether it comes to something as small as splitting the bill, or something as big as making investment plans for your future selves.

But maybe just save the hard-hitting talks for the third or fourth date.

Celebrate Pride by supporting these LGBTQ-owned date spots

June 8, 2022/in Blog, Date Ideas, LA, NYC, SF, Tips /by CMB

As a dating app working to give everyone a chance at love, whoever that may be with, we decided to celebrate Pride this year in one of the best ways we know how: By setting you up on great dates!

We’ve put together a list of LGBTQ-owned businesses in Chicago, Seattle, Washington, D.C., San Francisco, New York, and Los Angeles that are total first-date material. And hey, they’re perfect for third dates or friend outings, or solo trips, too. Be sure to check them out not just this Pride Month, but all year long.

Chicago

R Public House

Head over to Jarvis Square to grab some casual bites and drinks at this community-driven pub. Or if brunch dates are more your speed, stop by between 10 AM-2 PM on the weekends.

Split-Rail

Get to know someone new over some comfort food and cocktails at this space in Humboldt Park. And make sure you don’t skip out on Chef and Owner Zoe Schor’s specialty: fried chicken.

The Dearborn

Founded by sisters Amy and Clodagh Lawless, this is a great spot for an after-work dinner date. Pro-tip? Visit on Happy Hour Mondays and split a few $10 starters.

Rogers Park Social

Looking for a cozy spot to chat over some cocktails? Head over to this neighborhood bar where you can sample from their ever-changing seasonal drink menu.

Wood

This restaurant in the Northalsted neighborhood is a great date option if you’re down with sharing small plates with someone new – which is a pretty great way to get to know what someone likes if you ask us!

Seattle

Dough Joy

Satisfy your caffeine-craving and your sweet tooth all in one date. Whether you visit their West Seattle or Capitol Hill location, you’re going to have a wide selection of house-made donuts to choose from. And bonus, they’re vegan!

Terra Plata

Interested in something a bit more upscale for your next date? Enjoy an “earth-to-plate” dinner on a rooftop garden at this restaurant in Capitol Hill.

Marination

This Hawaiian-Korean fusion spot is the place to visit if you’re going out with a fellow lover of big, bold flavors. They have a few locations, but the one in West Seattle offers skyline views that make the perfect backdrop for a date.

Flora Bakehouse

What makes a coffee date even better? A coffee date on a rooftop deck. Stop by this cafe in the Beacon Hill neighborhood for some caffeine and bakery treats.

Gemini Room

Whether you want a casual coffee date in the AM or a cocktail date in the PM, this new spot in Capitol Hill has what you’re looking for.

Washington, D.C.

Republic Restoratives

If you love grabbing a few drinks for a date but want to shake it up a little bit, try this small-batch distillery. You can stop by for some of their specialty cocktails, or sign up for a half-hour tasting tour if you’re feeling more adventurous.

Hank’s Oyster Bar

Down to split a dozen raw oysters (or two) with someone new? This place is for you. And bonus, they have locations at Dupont Circle, Old Town, and The Wharf, so it’s easier to find a spot that works for you and your date.

Succotash Prime

Head to this Penn Quarter spot for a taste of the south with a Korean twist, cooked up by Chef Edward Lee. Some crowd favorites include fried chicken with honey gochujang sauce, collard greens with kimchi and country ham, and Nashville hot oysters.

Red Bear Brewing

Co-owners Bryan Van Den Oever, Cameron Raspet, and Simon Bee have not only crafted a safe and welcoming space for the NoMa community but also a great date spot for a pair of brew lovers.

Three Fifty Bakery and Coffee

What’s better than a quaint coffee shop for a first date? A quaint coffee shop with a spacious outdoor space. Enjoy the fresh air and some good coffee with someone new – and maybe even bring your furry friend along as a third wheel.

New York City

Baz Bagels

You know we had to start this list with bagels. Stop by this charming neighborhood deli in Little Italy for a casual breakfast or lunch date with some hand-rolled bagels. Might we suggest the rainbow variety?

Big Gay Ice Cream

Originally founded as a food truck by Douglas Quint and Bryan Petroff, this spot is your stop if you’re in for a sweet treat. Grab some soft serve at either one of their locations in the Upper West Side or West Village.

Odd Fox Coffee

Want to inject a little whimsy (and caffeine) into a casual date? Odd Fox Coffee has two Brooklyn locations, so take your pick and enjoy a laid-back meetup.

Elmo

Whether it’s brunch, lunch, dinner, or drinks you’re after, Elmo in Chelsea is a go-to spot for a first date. Indulge in some shareable comfort food, like deviled eggs or popcorn shrimp.

Ursula

Spice up a breakfast date at this New Mexican-inspired cafe in Crown Heights, owned by Eric See. Heads up: It’s a takeout spot with only a few outdoor seats, so maybe grab two burritos to go and enjoy a stroll with your date.

Los Angeles

Liberation Coffee House

Located at the Los Angeles LGBT Center, this bright and beautiful cafe and community center is perfect for great conversation with someone new. Fun fact: It’s run by graduates of the organization’s Culinary Arts program that helps prepare LGBTQIA+ participants for work in the restaurant and hospitality industries.

Casita Del Campo

Going out with a margarita lover? Head to this colorful local spot with a long LGBTQIA+ history for an authentic Mexican meal. Pro-tip: Don’t skip out on sharing some chips and guac.

Nickel Diner

Sometimes comfort food in a retro setting is exactly what you need for a date – and at this spot, you can split a homemade pop-tart. Co-owners Monica May and Kristen Trattner also implemented a new “Pay It Forward” program, where you can donate $13 to provide a meal to someone in need.

Little Barn Coffee House

Woman, Latinx, and queer-owned, this little coffee spot is calling your name if you’re interested in a quick drink or a lunch meetup with someone new. And bonus, it’s vegan!

Jewel

Another spot for our dairy and meat-free daters. Check out this plant-based restaurant in Silver Lake with a patio that’s perfect for good conversations.

San Francisco Bay Area

Boichik Bagel

Named after a Yiddish term of endearment for a young man, owner Emily Winston opened this bagel spot to bring a taste of her New Jersey roots to her new home on the West Coast. A great get-to-know-you question for this date: What kind of bagel would you be and why?

Third Culture Bakery

Looking for a casual spot on a beautiful day? Meet up at this counter service bakery for some matcha and mochi muffins, and enjoy them out front in their outdoor seating area.

Equator Coffees

Coffee really can be the best first date, if we do say so ourselves. Equator Coffees has several locations around the Bay Area, so you can easily find a spot that works for both you and your date.

Lion Dance Cafe

Looking for a plant-based date spot in Oakland? This casual space has rave reviews for its authentic Singaporean fare, which you can enjoy in their first-come, first-serve outdoor parklet.

Pinhole Coffee

Tea, coffee, pastries, anyone? Head to this woman, POC, and queer-owned coffee shop in Bernal Heights for a quick meetup that isn’t short on charm.

Show support this Pride and beyond

Pride Month is a great time to get out and support the LGBTQIA+ community, but don’t forget these are great date spots year-round – not just in June. And of course, this list is far from complete. So don’t hold out on us if you know about any other queer-owned spots we missed! Check out our Instagram post and drop your contributions in the comments.

AAPI-owned spots to support on your next date

May 23, 2022/in Blog, Date Ideas, LA, NYC, SF /by CMB

May is here and brings us Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month. A time to celebrate diverse cultures, support our communities, and honor the contributions of Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders that have shaped who we are today. And as a company founded by three Korean sisters looking to shake up both the dating and entrepreneurial world, it holds a special place in our heart.

So in honor of AAPI Heritage Month, we’ve rounded up some AAPI-owned businesses in Chicago, Seattle, Washington, D.C., San Francisco, New York, and Los Angeles that you can check out on your next first date – or third date or anniversary date or just when you feel like getting something good.

Chicago

Coffee Lab and Roasters

Owners (and husband-and-wife!) Helen Kim and Peter Moon worked tirelessly to keep Coffee Lab afloat during the pandemic – and the shop remains a highlight of the Lakeview neighborhood to this day. Pop in for their specialty slow-drip cold brew and some light bites.

Siam Noodle and Rice

Looking for a date spot in Uptown? Head over to this family-owned spot that’s been serving Thai cuisine in the area for over 30 years – and don’t skip out on the sticky rice.

Kasama

This bakery and Filipino restaurant offers you a few options for your next date: a casual coffee meetup in the AM, a first-come-first-serve lunch, or a 13-course tasting menu that definitely requires reservations well in advance. But no matter what you choose, it’ll be a date to remember.

Second Generation

Whether you’re in the mood for a casual brunch date or a classic dinner date, this Logan Square spot should be on your list. Owners Vicki Kim, Nate Chung, and Edward Kim have blended Korean, Chinese, and Japanese flavors to create a perfect spot for your next date.

Aloha Eats

Head over to Lincoln Park to introduce someone new to Plate Lunch at this family-owned Hawaiian spot. And a date here wouldn’t be complete with an order of SPAM musubi, so be sure to grab a few.

Seattle

WeRo

Chef and Owner Wes Yoo set out to bring the tastes from his childhood in Seoul to Seattle, and delivers in the form of modern yet comforting Korean food. Drop by for some after-work drinks and eats from 4-5:30 PM to catch happy hour.

Lucky Envelope Brewing

Going on a date with a fellow brew-lover? Co-founders Barry Chan and Raymond Kwan are the masterminds behind the culturally-inspired beers on tap here, like their Peanut Butter Cream Stout or Lychee Sour Ale.

Musang

Head over to Beacon Hill where Chef and Owner Melissa Miranda is serving up delicious Filipino dishes inspired by her childhood. Try fun cocktails, like rhubarb-infused bourbon, and split some plates of lumpiang shanghai and fried oysters.

Phởcific Standard Time

Grab some pho and experimental cocktails at this speakeasy hidden away at Pho Bac’s downtown location. And be sure to try Khoa Was Here, a pho-fat-washed shot of Jameson that comes with a bowl of pho broth, named in honor of the co-owners’ late brother.

Chengdu Memory

Looking to spice up date night? Head to this hot pot spot on Jackson Street for some Sichuanese cuisine. Bond over a shared bowl – and be sure to hit the sauce bar so you can debate over who whips up the best accompanying sauce.

Washington, D.C.

Valley Brook Tea

Like the energy of a coffee date, but not much of a coffee drinker? This one’s for you. Head over to this cozy and bright spot to have some good conversation over an even better cup of tea.

Maketto

This date offers a little more than just dinner, seeing as how Maketto is a restaurant, coffee house, and boutique all rolled into one. Visit for Cambodian- and Taiwanese-inspired dishes to share, like pork steamed bao and wok fried yu choy.

Baan Siam

Looking for a food experience? This spot offers what they say are harder-to-find Thai dishes – and seeing as how Chef Jeeraporn ”P’ Boom” Poksupthon draws cooking skills from her mother and grandmother, you know you’ll be in great hands.

Ice Cream Jubilee

Sometimes a sweet treat is all you need for a perfect date. Owner Victoria Lai’s love of family trips for ice cream led to several locations in the DMV area, where you can stop in for flavors like Thai Iced Tea and Honey Lemon Lavender.

Mama Chang

If you’re looking for a bit more upscale option that still feels homey, this spot in Fairfax definitely delivers. Bond over Hunan, Szechuan, Hubei, and home-style Chinese dishes that celebrate all of the Chang women in this family-owned business.

San Francisco Bay Area

Sue’s Gallery Cafe

This mom-and-pop shop with coffee, tea, and pastries is the perfect spot for a casual coffee date. And bonus, you can browse their handmade ceramics while you’re at it.

Home Coffee Roasters

Owners Annie Cheng and In Hwan Heo know a thing or two about coffee dates, as they went on weekly ones together while dreaming of opening a shop of their own. Now, you and your date can follow in their footsteps.

FOB Kitchen

Visit this Oakland spot for delicious Filipino fare and island-inspired cocktails, brought to you by owner and chef Janice Dulce who grew up in the Bay Area and Guam and is now bringing recipes learned from her family to the public.

Cha-Ya

To our non-meat eaters, this one’s for you! Family-owned and operated in San Francisco’s Mission District, this is a great spot if you’re in the mood for Japanese cuisine that’s entirely vegan, too.

Dumpling House

Grab some Chinese bites, beer, and tea from this casual, family-owned spot – with a chef whose twenty-plus years of dim sum expertise hail from Beijing, Shanghai, and Hong Kong.

Los Angeles

B Sweet Dessert Bar

Looking for something less formal than dinner, but different from the standard coffee date? Grab something decadent, like their famous banana pudding, from this dessert bar owned and operated by Barb Batiste, who grew up baking sweets for her close-knit Filipino family.

Bopomofo Cafe

Serving Asian American cuisine, co-founders Philip Wang and Eric Wang turned to bo, po, mo, and fo, “the Chinese ABCs,” to come up with the name for their cafe. Stop by for tea, espresso, matcha, and plenty of shareables perfect for a date.

Broken Mouth

Did you know that in Hawaii, “broke da mout” is used by locals to describe food so good you don’t even have time to chew? Owner and Chef Tim Lee, Korean by blood and born and raised on Oahu, serves up homestyle Hawaiian food for Los Angeles. But if you’re on a first date, maybe try to chew a little.

Pine & Crane

Looking for a casual spot? Head over to this Taiwanese spot in Silver Lake for some staples like beef noodle soup and loose-leaf tea. Emphasis on casual, as it’s first come, first serve.

Maru Coffee

You can’t go wrong with a classic coffee date at this spot in the Arts District. The name comes from native Korean San Ma Ru, which means “mountaintop,” to symbolize their high-quality coffee, as the best beans come from high altitudes.

New York City

Kopitiam

Head to this Lower East Side spot, which means “coffee shop” in Hokkien, for a taste of Nyonya cuisine. Chef and owner Kyo Pang uses family recipes and traditions to introduce visitors to this blend of Chinese and Malay flavors.

Soft Swerve

In the mood for something sweet? Soft Swerve has two locations in NYC where you can cool off with Asian-inspired ice cream flavors like matcha and ube purple yam.

Ihawan

Take your date to try the best barbecue in town at this family-owned and operated Filipino spot in Woodside. You’ll find classic dishes from the Philippines, plus their specialty Kapampangan cuisine.

Pasteur Grill & Noodles

Looking for a spot in Chinatown? Head here for authentic Vietnamese food that’s the byproduct of generations’ worth of family recipes.

Té Company

If the casual coffee date isn’t your thing, how about tea instead? This intimate spot in the West Village has a wide variety of teas sourced from Taiwan, plus Taiwanese food to pair with it.

Let’s support our communities together

We know this list is far from complete, so don’t hesitate to branch out and find other AAPI-owned spots in your area, this May and beyond! And if you have locations in mind and want to share with others, head over to our Instagram post and drop it in the comments.

Hong Kong daters: Is your list holding you back?

December 3, 2021/in Blog /by CMB

From personality traits to physical appearances, we all have a dating checklist in our heads. And that’s totally OK! Standards for a relationship help ensure your needs are met. But if your expectations become unrealistic, is the list actually helping you find your person?

We sat down with daters in Hong Kong to see what they think. Here’s what we found out.

What’s on your list? 

Quick! Picture your perfect partner in your head – who do you see? Maybe a dark-haired hiking enthusiast. Or someone with strong eyebrows who loves the little things, like grocery shopping on Sundays.

If you have a clear image in your head, you’re not alone. The average dater in Hong Kong has a pretty long list for their future partners, coming in with over 20 must-haves and dealbreakers.

The daters’ responses revealed some not-so-surprising requirements. One in four Hong Kong daters makes their dating decisions based on someone’s occupation. And the little things are top of mind of a lot of daters, too, like fresh breath, gym selfies, and talking too loudly.

But added up, do all of these things really matter when it comes to finding something real?  

Time to ditch the list 

So, daters have a long list. But guess what else? We also found that 97% of Hong Kongers in relationships are with someone who’s different from what they were searching for.

Overall, one thing was clear at the end of the day. Across all demographics, Hong Kongers agreed that honesty, loyalty, and mutual respect are the most important qualities for a long and happy relationship.

So, remember: You’re totally allowed to have standards. We encourage you to, in fact! But it’s important to take a look at your dating list and determine what’s truly a dealbreaker, and what’s actually just a nice-to-have. And this is an ever-changing process because our wants and needs will change as we grow. As long as you’re honest with yourself and let go of little things holding you back, you’ll do great.

So, what do you think – ready to ditch your long list and find something real? With over 91% of CMB Daters looking for a serious relationship, you’ll be in good company at Coffee Meets Bagel. Download today to find your person.

Singapore daters: Is your list holding you back?

December 3, 2021/in Blog /by CMB

From personality traits to physical appearances, we all have a dating checklist in our heads. And that’s totally OK! Standards for a relationship help ensure your needs are met. But if your expectations become unrealistic, is the long list actually helping you find your person?

We sat down with daters in Singapore to see what they think. Here’s what we found out.

What’s on your dating list?

Quick! Picture your perfect partner in your head – who do you see? Maybe a dark-haired hiking enthusiast. Or someone with strong eyebrows who loves the little things, like grocery shopping on Sundays.

If you have a clear image in your head, you’re not alone. The average dater in Singapore has a pretty long list for their future partners, coming in with over 24 must-haves and dealbreakers.

The daters’ responses revealed some not-so-surprising requirements. One in five Singapore daters makes their dating decisions based on someone’s occupation. And the little things are top of mind of a lot of daters, too, like fresh breath, nail-biting, and even over-sharing on social media.

But do the little things really matter when it comes to finding something real?

Time to ditch the list 

So, daters have a long list of dealbreakers. But guess what else? We also found that 97% of Singaporeans in relationships are with someone who’s different from what they were searching for.

Overall, one thing was clear at the end of the day. Across all demographics, Singaporeans agreed that honesty, loyalty, and mutual respect are the most important qualities for a long and happy relationship.

So, remember: You’re totally allowed to have standards. We encourage you to, in fact! But it’s important to take a look at your dating list and determine what’s truly a dealbreaker, and what’s actually just a nice-to-have. And this is an ever-changing process because our wants and needs will change as we grow. As long as you’re honest with yourself and let go of little things holding you back, you’ll do great.

So, what do you think – ready to ditch your long list and find something real? With over 91% of CMB Daters looking for a serious relationship, you’ll be in good company at Coffee Meets Bagel. Download today to find your person.

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