First impressions matter, and it turns out that your smile plays a pretty major role: When surveyed, 84% of daters in Hong Kong said a nice smile is more attractive than a six-pack!
So, we teamed up with dental company Zenyum to help you unlock two of the best assets in dating: A confident smile and a helping hand from CMB Premium.
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Another fun fact about the power of your smile: 65% of daters said bad breath is the biggest turn-off on a date. Spend HK$750 or more on Zenyum products for 35% off plus one free month of CMB Premium. Just use the code CMBSMILE.
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With 82% of Hong Kong daters saying a confident smile makes for the most swipe-right-worthy profile photos, it’s clearly a powerful asset. Join Zenyum’s 60-day Invisible Braces treatment for HK$1,000 off and six months of Premium for free.
To learn more about our partnership offers with Zenyum and what Hong Kong singles think about dating, be sure to check out our Smile At First Sight homepage.
Whether you’ve been on Coffee Meets Bagel for three days or three months, chances are pretty high that you’ve seen us talk about beans. But do you know how to use them to their full potential?
We’ll give you the full rundown. But first, let’s cover the basic question: What exactly are beans? Simply put, they’re our in-app currency that you can use to unlock special features. Here’s a few ways they can give you a helping hand.
Everything you can do with beans
Get up to 5x the views. Plus likes that get shown sooner with a little help from Boost. Pick one up by tapping your profile icon in the top left corner, then “Boost me.”
Match in more ways. Suggested is great, but sometimes you might want to explore outside of the potential matches we picked out for you. You can send likes to people who catch your eye in Discover using beans.
Be shown first. When you run into a popular person on the app, you don’t want your like to get stuck behind a long queue. Use beans to buy Skip the Line, which sends flowers with your like and makes sure you get shown first.
Rekindle a convo. Maybe life got in the way and a chat dwindled away, or you just needed some time away from dating. Regardless of the reason, sometimes a chat deserves a second chance. Use beans on Reopen Chat to pick up where you left off.
So, that’s the inside scoop on beans! Now that you’re a total pro, you can let beans do some of the hard dating work for you. If you’re ever curious about how many you have, look for a beans icon in the top right corner of the Profile Me section – they’ll be a counter there. Find yourself wanting more beans? Earn some for free by signing in and referring friends. Or you can always pick some up in the Bean Shop.
We know planning dates can be hard. Keep it casual with coffee, grab drinks after work, plan a fancy dinner? Sometimes the key is to shake things up and try something new! A way you can do that while still keeping your date simple? A picnic.
And the thing is, you don’t have to be some amazing chef who packs a whole spread for you and your date – just grab your favorite to-go orders from a place nearby! It’s pretty easy with foodpanda pick-up, even if you’re debating until the last minute about where to grab food. It’ll be ready in as fast as 10 minutes. And bonus, you don’t have to wait around in long lines, filling the time with small talk. Just pop in, grab your orders, and head out to your spot for a romantic picnic.
But where to go? We did the work for you and rounded up four picturesque spots in Singapore that make for a great picnic date with someone new.
Marina Barrage
Looking for something scenic? This spot has views of the bayfront, Gardens by the Bay, and Marina Bay Sands – perfect for a sunset picnic. And bonus, the breeze means it’s a popular spot for kite fliers, adding even more to your date backdrop. Pop over to Tim Ho Wan at Marina Bay Sands before heading there to grab some to-go pork puns or dumplings, and maybe even something sweet to split.
Changi Bay PCN
The views of Changi Bay are a great talking point when getting to know someone new. Pick up some dinner at Andes by Astons in Changi Village, pack a blanket, and plan to park at the Changi Beach car park – from there, it’s only about a five-minute walk! And if you’re not too full after eating, you can walk even farther to Changi Bay Point.
Keppel Marina East Desalination Plant
In the mood for a spot that’s less crowded? This one’s a little off the beaten path, but you’ll have skyline views that make for a great sunset date. Note that there isn’t public parking here, so you’ll have to park and walk for your picnic – the nearest car park is Fort Road. Pick up a pizza from nearby Brewerkz for a feast. Don’t forget to debate your favorite toppings.
Marina South Pier
Marina South Pier isn’t just for catching a ferry to St. John’s Island, it’s also a picturesque spot to chill out with someone new. Harry’s at Marina Link Bay Mall is close by and has platters made for sharing. Place a pick-up order on the way there so you can grab and go. Don’t forget a blanket, and watch the ships together.
Even more date inspiration
Once you’ve mastered the art of the picnic date, be sure to check out our Instagram. You’ll find more date ideas so you can expand your options, plus a ton of other dating advice.
A note from Arum Kang, co-founder & CEO of Coffee Meets Bagel
Now that you’ve learned how to chat like a champ, pick your best pics, and stay safe while looking for someone special, I wanted to cover one last thing before we officially send you on your way to meet someone great: CMB Premium.
I know what you’re thinking. “Really, an upsell?” But here’s the thing: My sisters and I started Coffee Meets Bagel because we were tired of all of the dead-end dating apps that led you round and round with no end in sight. We wanted to create a better way to date, one that actually helps you meet other people looking for a serious relationship.
And the inside scoop from me to you? Subscribers get up to 2x the quality matches *and* dates, thanks to all of the goodies that come with Premium. That means more chances to find your person. Let’s go over all those Premium benefits so you can better understand how they help (and so there’s no confusion when you see them on the app, too).
All the benefits of Premium
See everyone who likes you. Why wait to meet someone great? Unblur all your likes and match instantly.
8 Discover Likes a month. Remember, Discover is where you can find people outside of your Preferences for Suggested.
Premium Preferences. Want more control over who you see? Set relationship goals, smoking habits, family plans, and more.
3 Boosts a month. All eyes on you! Enjoy up to 5x more views and every like you send while being boosted gets shown sooner.
Unlimited Skip the Line. Stumble upon a popular potential match and want to stand out? Send flowers to be shown first.
Activity Reports. Who doesn’t love some extra info? See who’s worth your time with activity and chat data.
Read Receipts. Waiting, schmaiting. Know when messages are read, so you’re never left in the dark.
Unlimited Rewinds. Have a change of heart? Undo passes on suggested profiles in History.
OK, I’m done preaching about CMB Premium! Whether you decide to give a subscription a try or not, you’re all set to go out there and find your someone. And remember, dating is a process. Try your best to enjoy it, and don’t let any downs overshadow all of the amazing ups. Good luck!
Talking about money with someone new has been taboo for too long. We believe every dater should be able to talk about the things that matter most with someone new, and how you manage your finances definitely falls under that category.
So, to better understand how daters feel when it comes to talking about money with their dates, we teamed up with Syfe, Singapore’s leading digital investment platform, to go straight to the source. And you know what? Turns out that money does matter.
In our Love Meets Money survey, we learned that 92% of Singaporeans agree that the ability to manage money is an attractive quality for a long-term partner. And that’s not all. Let’s take a deeper dive into how daters navigate the tricky topic.
Handling the bill on a first date
The discussion about who should pay on a first date has always been a hot-button topic. But based on our survey results, daters might be more aligned than previously thought. For both men and women in Singapore, 2 in 5 think that men should pay, and 1 in 3 think you should just split the bill.
And it turns out traditional beliefs are still going strong, seeing as how less than 1% of Singaporeans think the woman should pay on the first date.
Now, what happens if you offer to cover the bill and your date doesn’t object? Over half of the women surveyed said they’d be offended, whereas only 24% of men expect their date to offer to split in this scenario.
Our take? It’s best to just be both polite and upfront about the bill to avoid awkward exchanges or grudge-holding. For example, offer to pay your own way, but thank them if they insist on paying.
Talking about finances: How soon is too soon?
While we do think it’s important to talk about the things that matter early on, it’s not really a surprise that a lot of our survey participants said bringing up money on a first date is a big turnoff.
Although, this does vary with age: More than half of Singaporeans over 35 think money talk is off-limits for the first date, but only 40% under 35 feel the same way. Maybe talking about money isn’t quite so taboo as it used to be.
Regardless of whether you think finances are appropriate first-date material, most of our survey participants agree you can’t ignore it forever. So when can you bring it up? We’re a little divided, with 32% saying you should have the talk before you define the relationship, and 31% saying it’s OK to wait until you’re already in a serious relationship.
But if you want to hold off until you’ve moved in together or are getting married? Well, a whopping 98% think by that point, it’s too late.
How money matters in a relationship
So, why does talking about money even matter to daters? It turns out that careers play a part. Which makes sense, if you want to be with someone who you’re not only compatible with, but who you can build a stable life with, too.
While talking about money on a first date isn’t really all that sexy, 1 in 3 Singaporeans said they’d be open to discussing salaries in particular within just five dates. And in the same vein, 44% think it’s necessary to get into that topic before you make things official.
The survey also found that women take careers into consideration when picking a potential partner. When it comes to ranking criteria that matter most for a relationship, career came in second place for women, while it didn’t crack the top three for men.
But while Singaporean men and women might disagree on the career ranking, one thing they did agree on? Values are the most important thing to look at when deciding if someone is the right fit for you. And we couldn’t agree more.
The importance of aligning on the big things
We know, talking about money can be awkward and weird and maybe even feel a little intrusive. But it doesn’t have to be! Whether we like it or not, money plays a big role in our lives. And we believe that daters should be able to talk about those big things if they want to build a trusting, lasting relationship. If you’re stuck here’s a few tips to remember:
👉 Do acknowledge the weirdness. Talking about money isn’t easy for everyone. Let them know if you’re nervous, and try to remember this is just a chat and not some battle.
👉 Don’t shame them. Try to remember that not everyone will have the same financial literacy or money-management skills – but we can all learn.
👉 Do consider their situation. Remember that wanting to split costs doesn’t mean they don’t like you, they just might not have the same finances as you.
👉 Don’t ambush them. Give some notice to see if they’re open to talking. For example, “If we’re moving in together I think we should start thinking about a monthly budget. Thoughts?”
So go ahead, have the hard conversations. Make sure you’re on the same page, whether it comes to something as small as splitting the bill, or something as big as making investment plans for your future selves.
But maybe just save the hard-hitting talks for the third or fourth date.
As a dating app working to give everyone a chance at love, whoever that may be with, we decided to celebrate Pride this year in one of the best ways we know how: By setting you up on great dates!
We’ve put together a list of queer-owned businesses in San Francisco, New York, and Los Angeles that are total first-date material. And hey, they’re perfect for third dates or friend outings or solo trips, too. Be sure to check them out not just this Pride Month, but all year long.
New York City
Baz Bagels
You know we had to start this list with bagels. Stop by this charming neighborhood deli in Little Italy for a casual breakfast or lunch date with some hand-rolled bagels. Might we suggest the rainbow variety?
Big Gay Ice Cream
Originally founded as a food truck by Douglas Quint and Bryan Petroff, this spot is your stop if you’re in for a sweet treat. Grab some soft serve at either one of their locations in the Upper West Side or West Village.
Odd Fox Coffee
Want to inject a little whimsy (and caffeine) into a casual date? Odd Fox Coffee has two Brooklyn locations, so take your pick and enjoy a laid-back meetup.
Elmo
Whether it’s brunch, lunch, dinner, or drinks you’re after, Elmo in Chelsea is a go-to spot for a first date. Indulge in some shareable comfort food, like deviled eggs or popcorn shrimp.
Ursula
Spice up a breakfast date at this New Mexican-inspired cafe in Crown Heights, owned by Eric See. Heads up: It’s a takeout spot with only a few outdoor seats, so maybe grab two burritos to go and enjoy a stroll with your date.
Los Angeles
Liberation Coffee House
Located at the Los Angeles LGBT Center, this bright and beautiful cafe and community center is perfect for great conversation with someone new. Fun fact: It’s run by graduates of the organization’s Culinary Arts program that helps prepare LGBTQIA+ participants for work in the restaurant and hospitality industries.
Casita Del Campo
Going out with a margarita lover? Head to this colorful local spot with a long LGBTQIA+ history for an authentic Mexican meal. Pro-tip: Don’t skip out on sharing some chips and guac.
Nickel Diner
Sometimes comfort food in a retro setting is exactly what you need for a date – and at this spot, you can split a homemade pop-tart. Co-owners Monica May and Kristen Trattner also implemented a new “Pay It Forward” program, where you can donate $13 to provide a meal to someone in need.
Little Barn Coffee House
Woman, Latinx, and queer-owned, this little coffee spot is calling your name if you’re interested in a quick drink or a lunch meetup with someone new. And bonus, it’s vegan!
Jewel
Another spot for our dairy and meat-free daters. Check out this plant-based restaurant in Silver Lake with a patio that’s perfect for good conversations.
San Francisco Bay Area
Boichik Bagel
Named after a Yiddish term of endearment for a young man, owner Emily Winston opened this bagel spot to bring a taste of her New Jersey roots to her new home on the West Coast. A great get-to-know-you question for this date: What kind of bagel would you be and why?
Third Culture Bakery
Looking for a casual spot on a beautiful day? Meet up at this counter service bakery for some matcha and mochi muffins, and enjoy them out front in their outdoor seating area.
Equator Coffees
Coffee really can be the best first date, if we do say so ourselves. Equator Coffees has several locations around the Bay Area, so you can easily find a spot that works for both you and your date.
Lion Dance Cafe
Looking for a plant-based date spot in Oakland? This casual space has rave reviews for its authentic Singaporean fare, which you can enjoy in their first-come, first-serve outdoor parklet.
Pinhole Coffee
Tea, coffee, pastries, anyone? Head to this woman, POC, and queer-owned coffee shop in Bernal Heights for a quick meetup that isn’t short on charm.
Show support this Pride and beyond
Pride Month is a great time to get out and support the LGBTQIA+ community, but don’t forget these are great date spots year-round – not just in June. And of course, this list is far from complete. So don’t hold out on us if you know about any other queer-owned spots we missed! Check out our Instagram post and drop your contributions in the comments.
May is here and brings us Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month. A time to celebrate diverse cultures, support our communities, and honor the contributions of Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders that have shaped who we are today. And as a company founded by three Korean sisters looking to shake up both the dating and entrepreneurial world, it holds a special place in our heart.
So in honor of AAPI Heritage Month, we’ve rounded up some AAPI-owned businesses in San Francisco, New York, and Los Angeles that you can check out on your next first date. Or third date or anniversary date, or just when you feel like getting something good.
San Francisco Bay Area
Sue’s Gallery Cafe
This mom-and-pop shop with coffee, tea, and pastries is the perfect spot for a casual coffee date. And bonus, you can browse their handmade ceramics while you’re at it.
Home Coffee Roasters
Owners Annie Cheng and In Hwan Heo know a thing or two about coffee dates, as they went on weekly ones together while dreaming of opening a shop of their own. Now, you and your date can follow in their footsteps.
FOB Kitchen
Visit this Oakland spot for delicious Filipino fare and island-inspired cocktails, brought to you by owner and chef Janice Dulce who grew up in the Bay Area and Guam and is now bringing recipes learned from her family to the public.
Cha-Ya
To our non-meat eaters, this one’s for you! Family-owned and operated in San Francisco’s Mission District, this is a great spot if you’re in the mood for Japanese cuisine that’s entirely vegan, too.
Dumpling House
Grab some Chinese bites, beer, and tea from this casual, family-owned spot – with a chef whose twenty-plus years of dim sum expertise hail from Beijing, Shanghai, and Hong Kong.
Los Angeles
B Sweet Dessert Bar
Looking for something less formal than dinner, but different from the standard coffee date? Grab something decadent, like their famous banana pudding, from this dessert bar owned and operated by Barb Batiste, who grew up baking sweets for her close-knit Filipino family.
Bopomofo Cafe
Serving Asian American cuisine, co-founders Philip Wang and Eric Wang turned to bo, po, mo, and fo, “the Chinese ABCs,” to come up with the name for their cafe. Stop by for tea, espresso, matcha, and plenty of shareables perfect for a date.
Broken Mouth
Did you know that in Hawaii, “broke da mout” is used by locals to describe food so good you don’t even have time to chew? Owner and Chef Tim Lee, Korean by blood and born and raised on Oahu, serves up homestyle Hawaiian food for Los Angeles. But if you’re on a first date, maybe try to chew a little.
Pine & Crane
Looking for a casual spot? Head over to this Taiwanese spot in Silver Lake for some staples like beef noodle soup and loose-leaf tea. Emphasis on casual, as it’s first come, first serve.
Maru Coffee
You can’t go wrong with a classic coffee date at this spot in the Arts District. The name comes from native Korean San Ma Ru, which means “mountaintop,” to symbolize their high-quality coffee, as the best beans come from high altitudes.
New York City
Kopitiam
Head to this Lower East Side spot, which means “coffee shop” in Hokkien, for a taste of Nyonya cuisine. Chef and owner Kyo Pang uses family recipes and traditions to introduce visitors to this blend of Chinese and Malay flavors.
Soft Swerve
In the mood for something sweet? Soft Swerve has two locations in NYC where you can cool off with Asian-inspired ice cream flavors like matcha and ube purple yam.
Ihawan
Take your date to try the best barbecue in town at this family-owned and operated Filipino spot in Woodside. You’ll find classic dishes from the Philippines, plus their specialty Kapampangan cuisine.
Pasteur Grill & Noodles
Looking for a spot in Chinatown? Head here for authentic Vietnamese food that’s the byproduct of generations’ worth of family recipes.
Té Company
If the casual coffee date isn’t your thing, how about tea instead? This intimate spot in the West Village has a wide variety of teas sourced from Taiwan, plus Taiwanese food to pair with it.
Let’s support our communities together
We know this list is far from complete, so don’t hesitate to branch out and find other AAPI-owned spots in your area, this May and beyond! And if you have locations in mind and want to share with others, head over to our Instagram post and drop it in the comments.
From personality traits to physical appearances, we all have a dating checklist in our heads. And that’s totally OK! Standards for a relationship help ensure your needs are met. But if your expectations become unrealistic, is the list actually helping you find your person?
We sat down with daters in Hong Kong to see what they think. Here’s what we found out.
What’s on your list?
Quick! Picture your perfect partner in your head – who do you see? Maybe a dark-haired hiking enthusiast. Or someone with strong eyebrows who loves the little things, like grocery shopping on Sundays.
If you have a clear image in your head, you’re not alone. The average dater in Hong Kong has a pretty long list for their future partners, coming in with over 20 must-haves and dealbreakers.
The daters’ responses revealed some not-so-surprising requirements. One in four Hong Kong daters makes their dating decisions based on someone’s occupation. And the little things are top of mind of a lot of daters, too, like fresh breath, gym selfies, and talking too loudly.
But added up, do all of these things really matter when it comes to finding something real?
Time to ditch the list
So, daters have a long list. But guess what else? We also found that 97% of Hong Kongers in relationships are with someone who’s different from what they were searching for.
Overall, one thing was clear at the end of the day. Across all demographics, Hong Kongers agreed that honesty, loyalty, and mutual respect are the most important qualities for a long and happy relationship.
So, remember: You’re totally allowed to have standards. We encourage you to, in fact! But it’s important to take a look at your dating list and determine what’s truly a dealbreaker, and what’s actually just a nice-to-have. And this is an ever-changing process because our wants and needs will change as we grow. As long as you’re honest with yourself and let go of little things holding you back, you’ll do great.
So, what do you think – ready to ditch your long list and find something real? With over 91% of CMB Daters looking for a serious relationship, you’ll be in good company at Coffee Meets Bagel.Download today to find your person.
From personality traits to physical appearances, we all have a dating checklist in our heads. And that’s totally OK! Standards for a relationship help ensure your needs are met. But if your expectations become unrealistic, is the long list actually helping you find your person?
We sat down with daters in Singapore to see what they think. Here’s what we found out.
What’s on your dating list?
Quick! Picture your perfect partner in your head – who do you see? Maybe a dark-haired hiking enthusiast. Or someone with strong eyebrows who loves the little things, like grocery shopping on Sundays.
If you have a clear image in your head, you’re not alone. The average dater in Singapore has a pretty long list for their future partners, coming in with over 24 must-haves and dealbreakers.
The daters’ responses revealed some not-so-surprising requirements. One in five Singapore daters makes their dating decisions based on someone’s occupation. And the little things are top of mind of a lot of daters, too, like fresh breath, nail-biting, and even over-sharing on social media.
But do the little things really matter when it comes to finding something real?
Time to ditch the list
So, daters have a long list of dealbreakers. But guess what else? We also found that 97% of Singaporeans in relationships are with someone who’s different from what they were searching for.
Overall, one thing was clear at the end of the day. Across all demographics, Singaporeans agreed that honesty, loyalty, and mutual respect are the most important qualities for a long and happy relationship.
So, remember: You’re totally allowed to have standards. We encourage you to, in fact! But it’s important to take a look at your dating list and determine what’s truly a dealbreaker, and what’s actually just a nice-to-have. And this is an ever-changing process because our wants and needs will change as we grow. As long as you’re honest with yourself and let go of little things holding you back, you’ll do great.
So, what do you think – ready to ditch your long list and find something real? With over 91% of CMB Daters looking for a serious relationship, you’ll be in good company at Coffee Meets Bagel. Download today to find your person.
Scams are nothing new. We’ve all heard the cautionary tale about emails from a “friend” asking for a loan while they wait for their enormous trust fund to kick in.
But the latest online dating scam is much more clever than a shady email. It also has a new angle: cryptocurrency investing. Known as the “Pig Butchering Scam,” it started in China but is now targeting dating sites all over the world. It’s become such a problem that the FBI recently sent out this warning. They’ve received over 1,800 complaints about this new scam in the first seven months of 2021 alone.
This scam can be harder to spot than others, but that doesn’t mean you have to feel unsafe while dating. Keep reading to learn the ins and outs of the Pig Butchering Scam, from what it looks like to how to avoid it.
How the new crypto scam works
Wonder why it’s called the Pig Butchering Scam? It’s because these scammers play the long game. First, they gain your trust, then they “lead you to the butcher.” Here’s how it goes down.
After matching on a dating site, they’ll spend one to three months making you comfortable. They’re trained on how to act and have scripts for countless scenarios. So, everything feels real.
Next, they’ll suggest they can help you make a lot of money in cryptocurrency investment. Keep in mind, they won’t ask you directly for any money or your personal information. They might even encourage you to buy crypto from a legitimate exchange.
From there, you’ll be directed to a fake third-party website or app to start investing. The phony sites are top-notch, complete with “customer service.”
You’ll start to see a “profit” and they’ll even let you “withdraw” a small amount of money. This is a trick to further gain your trust. Once you’re feeling confident, the scammer will convince you to invest larger amounts. They’ll use phrases like “act fast” or shame you into feeling like you’re not giving enough.
But when you try to withdraw money again, the scammer or fake customer service representative won’t allow it. You’re told that fees or taxes are owed, or the minimum account balance hasn’t been met. The excuses continue until you realize it’s all a scam. At this point, the scammer vanishes – along with your invested money.
So far, large losses have been the norm. The Global Anti-Scam Organization, a volunteer group led by victims of this scam, found that the average loss was $98,000 and about 70 percent of victims were women, most with a bachelor’s degree.
Want an insider’s look into how it works? Check out this video from a fellow online dater who fell victim to the scam.
An online dater goes into detail about how they fell for the popular “Pig Butchering Scam”
Tips for spotting a scammer
So, what does an actor from the Pig Butchering Scam tend to look like? This list won’t match every person involved in the scheme, but here are some general guidelines:
✔️ Realistic profile names with an age range of 28-35 years old
✔️ Fluent in Chinese while also speaking in broken English (They might claim to use a translator)
✔️ Works as a business owner or a field such as finance, medical supplies, or sales
✔️ Studied finance or accounting and invests in crypto, forex, or gold as a hobby
✔️ Shares luxury-type pictures, including cars, jewelry, and handbags
So, this scam is less obvious than ones that ask you for your personal information or money upfront. But there are still some other warning signs that can help you spot a scammer.
They’re everything you’re looking for. The fake profiles show very good-looking men or women, who are also looking for a serious relationship. The conversation will always be flowing. They’ll send good morning and good night texts, selfies, pictures at local landmarks, even shots of their “homecooked dinners.” After a few weeks, they might start using pet names for you or even profess their love. If they get too lovey too quick, throw up a red flag.
Meeting up and video chats aren’t an option. They might use excuses about being too busy to meet in person, usually because of work. Or they’ll say they’re too shy to video chat, and might even pull on your heartstrings by citing a past bad relationship. But if you’ve been talking to someone for weeks and have yet to lay eyes on them, you should be cautious.
They talk a lot about money. Actors in this scam will present themselves as super-wealthy and will talk about spending thousands of dollars like it’s nothing. Reminder: Even if they don’t ask for your private information, any type of talk about your finances with someone you haven’t met is always a red flag.
You’re told about deals that are too good to be true. They’ll convince you that you can have what they have – all you have to do is try out their investment plan. “Trust me,” they’ll say, “My uncle is an expert in crypto and taught me everything they know!” Get rich fast schemes are almost always just that – schemes.
Got scammed? What to do next
Remember, scammers are opportunists and online daters a prime target for their shady schemes. You download a dating app with dreams of opening up and finding your person – and scammers look to take advantage of that vulnerability.
So if you find yourself a victim of a scam, try not to judge yourself. You did something brave by putting yourself out there. The blame is entirely on the scammer.
Now, check out this article on our Help Desk for steps you can take if you need direction after being scammed.
How CMB finds and blocks scammers
Dating should never feel scary – at least not for reasons like this. That’s why we’re working overtime to keep our community safe from scammers.
We use AI programs dedicated to sorting out scammers. Plus, we have an Approval Team that reviews new profiles and checks photos and schools for apparent fakes. If someone happens to get through this system and creates a profile, then we rely on savvy daters like you to be another line of defense.
If you think you’ve come across or matched with a scammer, please report them immediately. By reporting a scammer, you’re preventing them from taking advantage of someone else in the future. And don’t worry – reporting is totally anonymous.
Once reported, we investigate, then ban the profile if appropriate. We’ll then alert our Approval Team not to approve anyone with that user’s information or photos moving forward.
We know this is a lot of information to take in. But we want to give you all of the tools you need to protect yourself. That way you can actually enjoy online dating and find what you’re looking for: a real, lasting relationship (not an empty bank account).
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