Have you been trying all you can to get a girlfriend all to no avail? Do you find it impossible to keep a girl for a long period of time? Do you feel awkward when you are in the presence of a girl? Do you wonder why your friends have girlfriends and you seem to be the odd one out? If these questions describe you or your feelings, then you are about to get the solution to your problem.
It is a fact that some men find it difficult to get a girlfriend despite their efforts to get one. Having a girlfriend is not a rocket science. It should be something that you do naturally. In this article, I will be opening your eyes to the truth of the matter and what you can do to overcome this problem.
First off, I will like you to know that this problem is not peculiar to you alone. A lot of men are going through the same thing right now. Below are 6 things you can do to get it done with.
1. Search for love in the right places
The first thing you need to do is to look for girls in the right places. There are so many places to get a decent girlfriend, such as: the supermarket, library, Gym, sporting events, Church, weddings, eateries etc. These are great places to visit from time to time to search for good girls. Looking for a girl in a bar is probably the last thing you want to do. What do you expect of girls who visit night bars? They are surely not the best for you. Most men run into problems when they start picking up girls from night bars. Those girls are not built for decent relationships and if you are looking for one, you shouldn’t be frequenting those places because it may not happen.
2. Be confident
Some men do not have problem of meeting with girls. Their problem is the boldness to approach them. Talking to girls is not a difficult thing and you shouldn’t make it look like one. It is as simple as speaking to your sister or mother at home. Why it appears difficult is because you want to impress the lady. You want her to see you as a superman. It becomes easy the moment you decide to talk like ‘you’. Let her know the real you from the onset, there is nothing to impress any girl about. Be confident and tell her your mind. The worst thing that can happen is for her to disagree and say no. Saying no to your request is not a new thing. It’s been happening for a long time and will continue to happen. Don’t be discouraged because you got a no from a girl you like to date. Press harder and try your luck again and you will be shocked that she will accept you. If she doesn’t, move on to the next available girl. It is that simple!
3. Be committed
No sane lady in her right mind will decide to go out with a man who is not ready to commit. May be you have been non-challant and showing signs that you are not that interested to pursue the lady. Relationship is commitment. If you desire to have a girlfriend, you must be ready to show some level of commitment. That is what every girl desires of her boyfriend.
4. Don’t be desperate
This is another sign that can chase away girls from you. Don’t choke a girl up because you want her to be your girlfriend. Don’t call her 20 times a day because you just want to hear her voice. Everyone desires to have a level of freedom in a relationship. Don’t let your desire for a girlfriend dominate your life. Have a life! Pursue other goals in your life that can add value to you and girls will be running after you.
5. Be ready to lend your ear
Every girl wants a man who has time enough to listen to her stories. You must be ready to listen to what she wants to tell you and offer advice where necessary. If you are the type of man who does not have time and all you want to do is tell her about yourself, work, home etc. You may lose her along the line. When you learn to listen to a lady, she will feel at home with you around her and make you her best friend.
6. Be ready to take her out
Having a date with a girl is not a difficult thing to do. Once, you meet the girl you will like to date, arrange for a date with her. It doesn’t have to be expensive. Infact, you can choose to go to a coffee shop and talk there. You don’t have to dress excessively either. Choose something simple and comfortable and you are good to go. Scheduling a date with a girl is a sign that you are serious and want to take things to the next level. That is what every girl needs.
You can see from the points above that it takes little effort to get a girlfriend. Don’t make it hard for you! It is very simple. All the best!.
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